From Shyda's blog.

سْـــــــــــــــــمِ اﷲِارَّحْمَنِ ارَّحِي

What she wrote in her recent post really catch my eyes and my heart too. I want to share it here. Bolehkan Shyda? Heheh. Senang-senang masuklah blog my babe neh; www.nurshahidasamsuri.blogspot.com

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Bestfriend Forever vs Besrfriend vs Friend

1) damn! i was totally forgot to bring my toothbrush.

BFF: haha!padan muka! used mine je lah.

BF: seriously? kat belah sana got kedai , i saw it.

F: (sekadar menoleh)aah.

2) babe, aku sedih sangat ni, bla bla bla bla bla.....

BFF: whats going on dear?cerita kat aku..

BF: aku sebenanya kat luar ni. i call u back ya.

F: (jangan risau, takdenye dia call kau)

3) look at dress tuh babe!!! i die for it!!!

BFF: sesuai sangat ngan taste ko! grab it honey!

BF: aku tengok biasa je.

F: haish. cam pelek jom. bosan weh! let go somewhere else.

4)dulukan, masa aku gadoh ngan ko, aku ada badmouthing pasal ko kat si anu,,blah blah bla...

BFF: to be honest, aku pon sama. sakit hati sgt and i have to find some1 tok luahkan perasaan.

BF: owh ek..xpelah bnda lepas.

F: (no way to hell nak ngaku kat ko, motifff?)

5) jika pacar anda tidak disukai oleh teman anda-boyfriend aku suke buat aku camni,blah blah bla....

BFF: erm babe. aku tak brape suka si anu tu. u may get along with him but i have no interested to know about him at all. sorry ye babe.

BF: pulak dah..

F: klu aku lah dah lme aku tinggal je laki camtu,,,terus mengomel.

:: perbandingan ni i create dari kisah sebenar yang i sendiri lalui.

Best Friend Forever (BFF), u may share every single thing with he/she. tanpa segan silu. you know each other very well. klu tak puas hati boleh lepas camtu je. at the end of the day, you guys will be okay balek.

Best Friend (BF), you guys close, happiness and sadness might be share lah, tapi cannot be 100% of it. most of all, you guys have no point to argue with. things running okay most of the time. best friend paleng senang nak handle.

Friends (F), hmm in my opinion, they don't even care much about you. contohnya, kalau nak hang-out, it was like, kalau you ade tu adelah, kalau you tak de takdelah. you may not be such a important thing yang wajib ada. plus Friend ni tak suka pikir perasaan orang lain. cakap ikut sedap mulut. plusplus, they would never know you very well.itu yg pastinya. dia berkawan dengan awak, tp sepanjang tempoh itu, dia suka bertindak ikut kepala dia, plus tak penah nk pikir perasaan awak. you guys boleh laugh together.nangis? oh tidak, gelak je lah.so this type of people, cukuplah sekadar menjadi kawan,tak lebih dari itu.

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Sebab tuh lah i taknak suka-suka sana sini canang yang si polan neh bff i, si anu tuh kawan donia akhirat i. Sebab i takut yang i neh tak mampu nak jadi bff to someone. Tapi, apa status i pada kawan-kawan i, biarlah rate diorang tuh, diorang simpan dalam hati diorang. Lebih baik macam tuh. I pun macam tuh, one fine day i akan bagi tau siapa sebenar bff i kat orang yang sepatutnya tuh. I tak harap pun yang bila one fine day tuh tiba, she will say that i am her bff too. Cuma sekadar dia menghargai i pun cukuplah. ;)

Love,